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romance

what is romance?

romance definition

what does romance look like in our culture, community, society?

romance vs. platonic attraction

romance vs. sexual relationships - romance and sexual relationships often but not always go together​

video from qt adults - what does romance feel like to you? in what ways do you like to be romantic towards your partner(s)? In what ways do you like to be romanced?

dating

Romantic relationships go by many names, and the way we talk about them changes like any other trend. Dating, talking, going out, seeing someone, going steady, hooking up — no matter what you call it, it can bring on a lot of complicated feelings, both good and not-so-good.

  • how to know if someone likes you

  • how to ask someone out​​

  • how to respond if someone asks you on a date

    • if you want to say yes

    • if you want to say no

t4t relationships

  • what is t4t?

  • why might someone choose to be t4t?

  • what is different for trans people when it comes to romance?

"straight-passing" relationships

  • what is a "straight-passing" relationship?

    • why is that language sometimes not the best?​

  • who can be in a straight-passing relationship? (anyone! bisexual people and trans people especially)

  • how to combat misconceptions about your relationship

    • how to respond if someone makes you feel like you don't belong in queer community​​​

    • being in a straight passing relationship is actually one of the most common queer experiences; there are more bisexual people than anyone else!

heteronormativity

what is heteronormativity?

how does heteronormativity affect queer romance?

breaking up

Most romantic relationships end, and that's okay. From each relationship we're in, we can learn more about ourselves, about how to be a good partner, and about what we want in a partner.​ When a romantic relationship ends, it's okay to take time to feel sad and grieve the loss of that relationship. With time, you'll feel better.

  • how to break up with someone

  • what to do if you get broken up with

    • lean on friends and community​

    • comfort media

  • moving on

    • rebounds​

    • learning from previous relationships

    • entering a new relationship; disclosure?

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